I am struggling with this blog post but my thoughts must be explored and written.
This re-union happening after three years is well worth it. You’ve aged gracefully and seem a lot happier. It is very refreshing to see you happy. I also know that you’ve notice some changes over here. We are both adjusting to the women we’ve grown into. Co-existing over this three months period will put our personal boundaries to test. Literally !!! I am just grateful that you are coming home to a healed daughter. I have learnt to put the words patience and compromise to use. But i will not fall for your guilt trips (sorry mama!!! hahaha). I know that we communicate very differently now, and i need you to remember that you haven’t lost control the truth is; we truly have No Control over other people emotions or reactions. Any attempt to over control leads to dysfunction
If you ever find yourself lost in this changes look at this Mandala and remember this;
1. I am resilient and i have found my inner goddess
2. I have also morphed from a caterpillar to a beautiful butterfly (free of dysfunctional patterns, free of grief, and anger),
3. I now flirt with life and embrace it with passion like a flamenco dancer.
4.I have found my centre.
5. I have modified your golden rule of ” family comes first “ to “family means the world to me but it can never be at risk of loosing my own sanity“ gotta love this remix
Cheers to our fun vacation, thanks a million for all the wonderful gifts you brought on this trips and many more.